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Hi everyone!

Slow Sunday… QUESTIONS?!

You can ask me anything!

I’m online!

Anyone have any questions?!

Anonymous: I'm a girl and my friend (who is a girl) kissed me. What the hell do I do? D: ~Confused

Well… Did you enjoy it? It’s nothing to be ashamed of if you did! But you need to determine that yourself.
If you didn’t, you should probably let her know that it wasn’t something you liked and you’d appreciate if she didn’t do it again.

Good luck! :]

Anonymous: what's the best way or me to orgasm during penetration, I've never came during sex, and I keep faking it and I think my boyfriend is starting to realise :P

This is a very common thing. Most women don’t actually orgasm during penetration. Women are more commonly orgasm when they are stimulated externally. (rubbing on the clit, or using a vibrator) Although, if your g-spot is stimulated correctly, you can actually orgasm from having intercourse. Go to this site!
http://voices.yahoo.com/the-4-best-positions-reaching-tantric-g-spot-433595.html

If this doesn’t work for you, (because it doesn’t on all women) try having your boyfriend stimulate your clit while you two are having sex. It’s totally fine, and once you get going you’ll love it!

Good luck!

Read something about some fetishes I hadn’t heard of before!

I think you all will enjoy this post! (Especially since I haven’t posted anything in like 238237 years)

Number 1!
Woolies: People with a fetish for wool clothing.

There are some people who love wool so much that they make bodysuits out of them, to wear them constantly. There is even a French wool fetishist forum to discuss their love for wool clothing. Some of this advanced knitters take their clothing experience to the “next level.” - Don’t these people get hot as fuck?!

Number 2!
Mucophilia: A fetish for sneezing.

Okay, I’ll admit, I actually really do enjoy sneezing. But… I don’t get sexually turned on by it.

For most people, a sneeze is nothing more than an ordinary biological act: one “achoo!” and it is over. But for a certain group of enthusiasts, a sneeze means much more. Music to the ears? Maybe not for most. But for those with a sneezing fetish, hearing, seeing or having a sneeze tickles them in all the right places. 

If you think this fetish is rare, type “sneeze fetish” into your favorite searcher and a few seconds later you get several responses, like: Yahoo! Clubs: Sneeze Fetish—celebrating the sensual sneeze; Tarot of Sneezing, The sneezing is mysterious and exciting, and should be treated as the beautiful art it is; Sneezing Fetish Online—dedicated to the fetish of the human sneeze; Diary of a sneeze fetishist—exploring the origins, development and impact of one woman’s fetish for sneezing; Serotica—Dedicated to fiction combining sneezing and sensuality and many others.

Number 3!
Pedal Pushing Fetish: Fetish for pedal gas pumping.

These people get off on repeatedly pushing down on gas pedals. If you have any doubts about this type of fetish, you can surf at Pedal-Pumping.com, which advertises itself as the “Pedal Pumping Foto and Leg Fetish Site” with video clips of brake failure, gas pedal pumping, revving, stuck cars, stalled engines, stranded in a car, women, girls and ladies trying to start cars etc…”

Personally, I think these people have an adrenaline type fetish as well.  

Helloooo!

So guys, I started back at college, and I’m EXTREMELY busy right now. But I’ve learned so much new material so far this semester and I can’t wait to share it with all of you! Super interesting stuff to come within the next few weeks.
I’m so sorry that I’ve been gone for so long! I’ve gotten a few messages wondering where I have been and if I’m coming back. YES, I will come back! But school is my first priority in my life. I have a 4.0 guys, I can’t let that slip away from me!

Thank you all for being understanding. I appreciate it. Please don’t hesitate to send me an e-mail with some questions. I may not get on here as often as I’d like, but I will answer your e-mails! So feel free. :]


-Kayla 

dennisneuber41: I'm sorry this isn't a question, I just wanted to tell you that i absolutely love this blog!! You have given me a lot of information that i have enjoyed reading. Do you have a twitter I could follow? I guess that's my question:) Ha

Aw, thank you so much! That means a lot to me. I haven’t been posting on the blog as much, but getting messages like this makes me more and more motivated! So thank you again. I don’t use twitter, but I have a personal tumblr: Kayxa. I also have facebook: Facebook.com/kaylavalente. Feel free to add me! Everyone else is welcome to do so as well.
Thank you again!!!

Anonymous: what are some different ways i can turn on my boyfriend?

Hey!
Well, that’s kind of a hard question to answer when I don’t know what his preferences are. Maybe you could try a few different things. Try kissing on his neck, lite biting, lip biting, grabbing him a little more than usual, hand guiding! A lot of guys really love when the girl shows them what they want. Try these little things and let me know how it works out for you. :)